I know I'm far from the only person in the community who feels uncomfortable with the shape of their iliac bones, and it affects my self-confidence both in everyday life and in intimate moments. Don't worry though, with time, I found ways to draw less attention to my hips and to keep this aspect of my anatomy from occupying so much space in my mind.

But did you know there are ways to keep that damn dysphoria at arm’s length while giving yourself time to explore? It doesn’t require strange incantations with flowers picked during the second quarter moon of the month.

You simply need to figure out which products work best for you.

Let's see the options.

When I wear a packer, the main things I focus on are the weight of it and how that makes me feel more connected to myself as a man, and how the packer makes my clothes fit and provides me with that masculine shape that I strive for in order to relieve my own dysphoria.