Pleasure During Dysphoria: Knowing How to Gear Up
Whether solo or with others, sexual pleasure should be a moment of well-being, satisfaction, and connection with your own body and with others. After all, it’s one of humanity’s basic needs (just drop a reference to Maslow’s pyramid if you want to sound extra smart).
That said, gender dysphoria sometimes likes to cast its shadow over our bodies when clothes are no longer there to protect us from prying eyes, including our own or when our hands don’t find the parts that should be there.
It can feel like having a bucket of ice water dumped straight over your head. Suddenly, the desire for intimacy with yourself or shared takes a serious hit. You might just want to disappear under a mountain of blankets and forget everything for a while.
But did you know there are ways to keep that damn dysphoria at arm’s length while you give yourself space to explore? And no, it doesn’t involve strange rituals with flowers harvested under the second quarter moon. You just need to find the right tools. The ones that work for you.
Not a Saw or a Hammer!
Come on! Get out of the garage! I’m not talking about those tools, but rather wonderful silicone creations that fool the eye and accessories that deliver loads of sensation. Perfect for tossing dysphoria into the back of a closet for a bit.
I’m going to introduce you to some Banana Prosthetics products and explain how they can help. Get comfy, grab a notebook let’s dive in!
*Important note: all bodies are different. What works beautifully for one person may not work for you, and vice versa. Keep that in mind!
Taking Matters “Into Your Own Hands”
Sight is a powerful sense and learning how to trick it can be incredibly euphoric. Do you dream of masturbating while watching your hand hold your penis? Feeling it in your palm instead of running into painful emptiness? That’s where the stroker comes in.
It’s a silicone penis prosthetic with a hollow, textured center where you insert your testosterone-driven genital growth (also known as a Tdick or peen). The result? Friction and suction on a very sensitive, highly erogenous area.
Trying my S2 stroker for the first time was an emotional experience. What I saw finally matched how I felt inside. I could feel every movement of this new extension of myself right down to the pressure of my fingers.
My fiancé was also impressed by how realistic it looked on me. And yes a stroker works just as well solo as with a partner. Letting someone else “take matters into their own hands” (literally) can be deeply pleasurable and a powerful act of intimacy and connection.
Not on hormone therapy and/or worried you don’t have enough length? No stress Banana Prosthetics thought of you too. You can add the Mini Wand to your prosthetic: vibrations replace suction and friction so you can experience that same rush of euphoria.
Strokers allow you to explore your own pleasure, share gentle moments alone or with someone else, and reduce genital dysphoria when your goal is comfort and well-being.
Team Player
When intimacy becomes a team sport, having the right equipment is essential otherwise pleasure can become difficult to reach, both physically and psychologically. Imagine a prosthetic that offers control and a strong sense of connection. Enter the Hard Packers.
These realistic silicone prosthetics let you proudly wear an erect phallus attached to a scrotum. Designed specifically for penetrative sex, Hard Packers come in a wide range of sizes, shapes, and colors so you can choose what aligns with your body vision.
You can fully merge with this extension of yourself in comfort, facing your partner and bam, dysphoria gets knocked right in the teeth.
I’ve personally experimented with the sensation plugs for Hard Packers. These hollow silicone inserts (mouth, anus, or vulva-shaped) attach to the base of the prosthetic and can be penetrated by a Tdick thanks to a suction effect.
That means you can feel yourself penetrating while simultaneously thrusting into your partner with the phallic tip of the prosthetic. The full package!
Being able to see penetration while feeling it directly in your own body is simply incredible. I felt so close to my partner in that moment we were both experiencing pleasure at the same time. It was especially exciting for my partner knowing the pleasure was mutual. And honestly? That kind of intimacy is rare especially the first few times.
No genital growth to fit into a sensation plug? Don’t worry pleasure is still very much possible. The textured silicone rubbing against intimate areas feels amazing on its own (add a bit of water-based lube for best results). Or you can opt for the Euphoric Vibes, a vibrating insert that fits into the same spot and stimulates exactly where it needs to to reach climax.
Living Your Sexuality
The key takeaway: tools exist to help reduce dysphoria during moments when we feel vulnerable and exposed literally. Developing a healthy, confident relationship with sexuality and intimacy helps create better harmony with your own body and with others.Discovering yourself is powerful.
Reclaiming your pleasure is even more so.
Happy exploring! If you ever feel like making a purchase, use my promo code for 10% off! TRANSBIGBRO10
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